The way to China (and back?) - by Elina

Saturday, December 27, 2003

Packing the bags, almost ready to hit the road... The past couple of days have just gone so quickly. I drove to Beijing with a couple of my students to pick Olli up at the airport on tuesday morning (and were only about an hour late). On the way back, he was initiated to the Chinese hospitality culture by stopping for a huge big lunch, with lots and lots of baijiu and beer... I managed to take it easy this time, as Olli had to take the center stage as the guest of honour for a change, i.e. down impressive quantities of liquor. But he did rather well, especially considering the lack of sleep and all the travel behind him.

On wednesday morning, I took Olli to my PhD class, from where we went for yet another huge lunch together with all my students. In the afternoon, we somehow ended up performing 'Silent night' as a duet in Finnish at a random Christmas/end of term party at the university (?!?). At night, a Christmas dinner offered by the International Department and a party at the student activity centre, with lots of dancing, which we continued with a beer in Rolling Stones and another drink in Nongfu with Olli and Griselle.

Christmas day was spent for the most part in a travel agency, trying to sort out arrangements for the coming couple of weeks. It works out cheaper to book the train tickets and hotels through an agency, though we learned that it also takes heaps of patience. Take a deeep breath... In the evening, a little get-together over at Griselle's with the foreigners. And that was our goodbye to Juan, who left yesterday to do a couple of internships in Washington, DC. So, we're one less, but apparently number 17 middle school is getting some new teachers next term, so we may have some new foreigners around, too.

Yesterday, a student of mine, Hannah, took us for a day-trip in the counties around Baoding. It was a gorgeous day, bright and sunny with blue skies, couldn't have been better. We climbed a little mountain to check out some imperial Han-dynasty tombs, and visited another massive complex built around an imperial Qing-dynasty tomb. Lunch was had at a small countryside restaurant on the way. Yummmmmyyy. We even had the chance to wittness the making of a TV series at an old mansion where we stopped last.

Lots to tell but not that much time, so this was really just a list of some of the things we've done so far. We've taken some good pictures with Olli's digital camera, I'll post some of them here later, I hope. But I'll try to find a way to log on on the way, as well, at least to read my email if nothing else.

Thanks for all the Christmas wishes, cards and pictures I have received from you!!!

So now: Nanjing, Suzhou, Shanghai, Hangzhou, Beijing...

Monday, December 22, 2003

To all of you reading this, I want to wish a MERRY CHRISTMAS.
Enjoy the season, light up some candles, take time to be quiet and relax, eat until you can't take another bite, be good toyourself and make someone else smile.
You are in my thoughts :)

This weekend I had a couple of those "Wow! I'm really in China" -moments. Most of the time, I go trough the days just living my life, taking things as they come, without giving it all that much thought. I mean, to me this is just my home, my city now. But sometimes, just for a little moment, I get this clear realisation that stops me to look around and say to myself: "Look at where you are!". Maybe you know what I'm talking about.

The first one this weekend was on friday, as I was taking the day to recover from thursday's Mongol traditions, I made my way to the supermarket to get a few things. On the way back, I was on the backseat of a taxi, waiting at the traffic lights. And I was looking at the people on their bicycles, all around me, on that long and wide road, and suddenly I realised that this was exactly the kind of image that I had seen on TV repeatedly over the years, usually to illustrate a news item from China. And I was there, in the middle of it! (I had time to think about all of this as I was actually in the car. Had I been on my bicycle myself, I'd have probably been too concentrated on survival.)

The other one was on saturday night, I went out for dinner with Griselle and afterwards we walked a cafe a few blocks away for some tea. On the way, we came across a dance performance. This was around 9 pm, in the dark. And in the corner of a small park, next to the road, a few people were playing on traditional Chinese instruments, including those big brass cymbals that produce this echoing rhytm. And then there were about ten women, dressed in red, performing a simple dance routine to the beat of the music. Next to them, other women had joined them and were learning the routine. A few people had gathered around to watch. And we stood there, too, for a while, just taking it all in. And just like that, I was reminded that this is China, China, China.

On sunday, over lunch with a couple of students from the evening class (Cathy and Sharon by their English names), I was learning to play Chinese chess. This game has just about the same principle as the Western Chess. Each of the two players has different pieces, with different moves, and the aim is to get the opponent's 'general' (i.e. the equivalent of the king in Western chess) into a position where it cannot move. I learned the moves, the pieces and played one game (which I won, but with some help from others, I have to admit) and got myself a chess set. Now my plan is to observe the old men who play chess in the streets, just about all over the city.

Olli is arriving in Beijing tomorrow morning, and I still don't know how I'm going to get there. My students asked the international department if they could spare a car, but the answer was no. They might be able to get a car from somewhere else though, but the problem is that as we need to go in the morning, there is a good chance that the highway will be closed because of fog. (In China, the main roads are not open if there's fog.) These days, the mornings tend to be really foggy. Today, the fog only cleared around noon, but now it's bright and sunny and the sky is beautiful and blue. No snow yet, though, so maybe we won't be having a white Christmas. But we'll see about tomorrow, my students are trying to figure something out. If worst comes to worst, I'll have to take the 5 a.m. train from Baoding, and then two buses in Beijing to get to the airport.

On a completely different note, I just got a phone call from Simon, an interesting Character, Chinese-Japanese, who had stayed in the whole week, sickly worried about having contracted HIV during a dentist's appointment last week. He said that he thinks his temperature is a little high now and he'd been looking for info on the internet about the symptoms after infection, but decided to call me as he knew that I know something on HIV/AIDS. I, of course, tried to reassure him that it's *extremely* unlikely that he would have contracted anything, and told him to take a deep breath and get out of the house.

It's beginning to feel like Christmas already, the city is full of decorations and staff in many shops and restaurants are wearing christamasy costumes. However, the Christmas here is practically a commercial thing, a celebration with a lot of byproducts and props, while many people are not even aware of what the original reason for the celebration is. I have to say that I'm getting rather annoyed by the neverending jingly music in the shops, but then again, this is the same thing in the West as well. With the exception, of course, that here most shops only own the same two or three songs, which they play over and over again. Or just *ONE* as we witnessed yesterday, while we spent a rather painful half an hour in a supermarket, where they kept playing a horrid version of 'Jingle Bells' over and over and over and over again. By the time we got out, my head was about to explode from all the 'dashing trough the snow'. Oh what fun!

But a much more Christmasy feeling was in another place, just one block down the street from the supermarket. We went to see the local catholic church, which was built in 1920 by some French priests, and is still host to an active catholic congregation, with smaller churches located in the nearby villages. From the outside, the church looks Western, but on the inside it has a peculiarly Chinese feel to it, mainly because of the red pillars that stand lining the two side walls. Stepping out of the church, we were summoned by an old Chinese woman to a smaller building next to the church, where some members of the congregation were preparing Christmas decorations. They were using the traditional Chinese method of paper cutting to produce these beautiful Christmas decorations. We then talked to the priest, father Joseph, who came in. The whole place felt very peaceful and warm, (although there was no heating), and made me smile.

Saturday, December 20, 2003

Yes, as has been pointed out by some of you, I have fallen unforgivably behind on my blogging... The reasons for this: I've been lazy, I've been busy, too little or too much has been happening. On wednesday, I begun writing an entry, but was interrupted halfway through by a couple of my students calling me to ask me out for a beer. I was then taken by these two men out to a club called 'West Wing City', a place where drinks are ten times the normal price and where you have to pay 20 kwai to get in even in the middle of the week. But it was a night to celebrate for them, as we had just finished exams. Anyway, this is what I had writted before I was interrupted...:
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Only a couple of days of teaching left before the looong holiday. My evening classes are over and done with, I just got home from the final party. And yeah, yeah, of course we had to have a 'party' at the end of it, which actually wasn't all that bad. Played games and had people perform silly things. Very innocent fun, reminded me of being at school, not exactly the kind of party i could see Finnish university students organising, but it gave me a few good laughs and the students really are very sweet. They gave me small presents and a nice card from everyone. We then lit up some candles and sang 'Silent Night' which I had taught them before, and it made me feel quite christmasy :)

Another big thing over and done with today is the exams for my PhD class. I wasn't too keen on the idea of having exams in the first place, but they are required by the postgrad office so I had no choice...
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...so I'll pick it up from here. The way I decided to organise the exams was to allocate each student a 15-minute slot during wednesday, during which they got to randomly pick one of ten topics (that I had shared with them in advance) and talk to me about it for a few minutes. Then I asked them some questions and just had a little chat on the topic. At the same time, I was listening to their pronunciation, grammar, speech flow, organisation, question handling etc, and graded them accordingly. I was dreading the day, actually, thinking that it'd be simply tiring and boring to be doing this for 6 hours, non-stop other than for the lunch break, but in fact I rather liked doing it, just chatting to people all day long. And the best part of it was that I didn't have to get stuck in never-ending conversations like sometimes happens, as I could just tell the students that their time was up and that they needed to leave. Convenient!

Thursday then, just about everyone showed up for the morning class. So, instead of going out for dinner which would have excluded a few people who had other things to do, we decided to head out for lunch with the whole group. I promised that if everyone came, we would cancel the afternoon class and just stay at lunch longer, after all we'd be speaking English. And a long night it turned out to be. I finally had to own up to my promise to drink baijiu, the local spirit, with the men. And I tried my very best, and tried to talk my way out of each glass after a certain point. But they would have none of it, especially one of them, John by his English name, who is the headmaster of the Hebei Police academy, and a big bloke (a pretty impressive sight in his uniform, actually, makes me definitely feel safe having him around, even if we're out late like wednesday night). He kept saying that as he is of Mongol ethnicity, I have to respect his Mongol traditions and oh boy do they have traditions, a million reasons for having to down yet another drink. Let's just say that after that night I don't have that much of my credibility as a respectable teacher left...

But now I'm looking forward to next week. I'll still teach a class on monday morning. Then on tuesday morning I'll head out to Beijing to meet Olli at the airport. If I'm lucky, I'll get a car to take me directly there, if not, I'll have to take the earliest train and somehow find my way to the airport. I guess my handy Lonely Planet Mandarin phrasebook will tell me how to ask the way to the airport... Olli will be staying here for a little over two weeks, the plan is to stay in Baoding over Christmas and then head down south, first to the Tai Shan mountain and then to Nanjing, Suzhou, Hangzhou, and back up to Beijing. But we'll see how these plans will change along the way.

For Christmas eve, the university is organising a dinner for us. Then, on the 25th we'll meet up with the foreigners to have dinner at Griselle's. On the 26th, Zhao Huifeng has promised to take Olli & me to see some sights in Hebei. Olli is leaving on 8 Jan, after which I'll come to Baoding maybe for a day or so, and then I've promised to go to Dalian, a city north-east from here, by the sea, for a week or so with Griselle. And when I'm back from Dalian, it's time to go to Shijiazhuan to spend the Spring Festival with Vivian's family. And I still have to find time to go to Beijing to meet some people from the international organisations. Classes for the next term will begin on 16 February.

So it's a busy holiday ahead. I won't probably be coming online that often, so blog updates and emails might be a little irregular. But keep checking anyway, I'll try to find a way to post something while we are on the road. Whatever happens, and wherever we end up, it'll be an adventure for sure :)

Tuesday, December 09, 2003

Another weekend escape to Beijing, this time for a whole two days. Me and Griselle spent a great couple of days shopping, partying, eating out... A perfect breather, will definitely do it again. And good Chinese practise, finding our way around the big city of Beijing. One lesson learned: one hour is *not* enough to take a bus to the train station from downtown. The last time we were there we just made it to the train a whole minute before it left, and for some reason will still didn't give it any more time, and this time missed it for real. We managed to change our tickets to the next train an hour and 40 minutes later, only to find out later that it was late or cancelled, might arrive later..or not. So we had to get new tickets for a yet another train (as the tickets can only be changed once for free). But made it back in one piece, quite a few hundred yuan poorer and dead tired but happy as ever :)

Last week in class I did a stereotypes/word association exercise with my PhD students. I gave them a few nationalities and told them to come up with words or descriptions that they associated with each group. I thought it might me interesting to see how the results would be different from what they might be in Finland or Europe. I'm writing the list down here, as some of you might find it interesting too, especially the ICC people ;) And it's interesting to see how clearly it can be seen where these associations come from. For example, the image of the French is just based on these romantic French films you can get over here, whereas the negative image of the Japanese is obviously due to the history between China and Japan (most Chinese hate the Japanese with a passion). I'm leaving out the list on what they thought of the Finnish, as it was solely based on me and they just did the whole Chinese flattery thing all over again...;)

Here are their answers:

The Americans
- indifferent to others
- creative
- open-minded
- talk too much
- free
- rich
- arrogant
- self-confident
- proud
- shrewd
- self-reliant
- show off
- self-important
- individualistic

The French
- romantic
- beautiful
- fashionable
- humorous
- polite

The Japanese
- industrious
- cunning
- difference between male/female (men being more cruel and rude)
- malicious
- polite on the surface
- aggressive
- can bargain
- patriotic
- stubborn
- greedy

The Chinese
- patient
- brave
- kind
- spoil their children
- honest
- friendly
- enthusiastic
- hospitable
- conservative
- shy
- don't want to lose face
- love life
- like good results and happy endings
- talkative
- family-oriented
- wise
- diligent

The Russians
- very tall (except for Putin, who however is cool, clever and handsome)
- beautiful girls
- good drinkers
- patriotic
- good at gymnastics, figure swimming and sports in general
- mentally strong
- strong-willed
- big-nosed
- wear uniforms
- can bear cold
- brave soldiers
- short of food

The Germans
- strong-willed (especially when it comes to football)
- chauvinistic
- do not like immigrants
- produce cars and electronics
- punctual
- warlike
- conceited
- arrogant
- pitiless
- intelligent
- creative

The South-Koreans
- industrious
- clever
- calm
- young people dye their hair
- have a lot of good popular music, movies, TV shows, clothes
- produce electronics
- have face lifts
- family-oriented (like the Chinese)
- produce a lot of soap operas, especially complicated love dramas
- strong-willed (especially when it comes to sports)

Wednesday, December 03, 2003

Today after the evening class two boys came up to me and said that they had noticed that I change my clothes quite often. They then wanted to know if it was a Western habit to change your clothes often, maybe even every day?
I looked at them for a while, and said, errrr yes, many people change their clothes fairly often. I have to point out here that most of my students go on for days and days wearing the same thing.
The next question was whether the reason for changing clothes was because people wanted to look beautiful. To which my answer was that people rather like to wear clean clothes, that most people would have a shower every day after which it's nice to wear something clean. They looked at me, said 'ahhhh', thanked me, and left.

Incidentally, the topic of taking showers came up today in my PhD class, too. I asked a girl, Sophia, what she did last night, and she told me that she and her classmate Alexis went to bathe. I didn't quite get what she meant, and asked if she meant that they went swimming or something. But no, she really meant that they went to take a shower, which is not something you'd do every day. And maybe the biggest reason for this is that the dorms on campus have no showers ot baths! The students live in small rooms with bunk beds, with 8 to 10 people crammed together. And when I say small I mean really *small*. The few PhD students who are living on campus are the lucky ones as they are only four people to one room. But as for showers, you have to go all the way across the campus area to a public bath house, where you actually have to pay to use the showers. The students buy a card which they can charge with money and then pay every time they want to get a shower. What can I say, other than lucky me with my own bathroom with hot water, any time of the day, and no charge!

Another question I was asked in class today: "Do you think you are beautiful?"

Monday, December 01, 2003

Happy, happy, just got an advent calendar in the post from my mum, I already feel more christmasy :) And my great aunt Senja called tonight so I'm one happy little girl. :)

Yesterday I spent five hours at the hairdresser's, trying desperately to make something decent out of a very bad hair situation. A student of mine from the evening class, Liu Ying, took me and Griselle to the best (supposedly) salon in Baoding. I really didn't know quite what I wanted done, but was thinking of just having a nice cut, but the bloke who was to be my hairdresser had his mind set up on a different style and would not give up. His idea was to kind of twist the hair into little curls, so it would look kinda messy and chopped in the end. So after thirty minutes of discussion, I gave in and let him have his way. (He kept saying that he would not do anything else, and that it's his order to do it like this.) By that time, he had also promised me highlights for free.
During the whole process I was terrified, as I had no idea what he really was doing, the explanation had not been too clear, at least in the translation. But it all took so long that at some point I stopped being scared and was just plain bored. In the end, what turned out to be the difficult part was the highlights. The hair dye they were using was meant for Asian hair and is probably somewhat different, and the colour that was supposed to take 15 minutes, had no effect whatsoever on my hair after an hour. So they kept trying…again and again. In the end, I'd had enough and told them to just forget it. I'm reasonably happy with the end result though, at least it's better than before :)

On Friday we had a little Thanksgiving dinner at my place, as we have a couple of Americans around. It was Griselle, Bishi and me, Juan & Bob and Beth, Ken and their kids. Everyone brought something to eat, we even had Beijing duck for the meat eaters (local substitute for the turkey). On Saturday I went bowling with Juan, it had been a while since I'd done that the last time. It was good fun, actually, something different for a change instead of just watching movies, which is what we usually end up doing.

Today after the morning class I went over to Zhao Hui Feng's flat (a student of mine), also in the Zhuguang compound. I stayed until lunchtime and hung around when she was cooking, I’m trying to pick up some tips for cooking Chinese food. She was also helping me with my Chinese...I'm learning... Her husband and son came home for lunch, like they do every day. All offices and schools normally have two hours off for lunch, which allows people to go home to eat. And the women, of course, have to cook the meal. And of course, these days the women normally have another job outside the home, too. And while the women cook and clean at home, the husbands and sons are sleeping or watching TV. Zhao Hui Feng, for example, is a teacher at AUH, but also a PhD student, in addition to having to do all the housework.

The male members of the family were silent during lunch, the husband as he doesn't speak English and the kid, because he was shy. The silence only goes for not speaking, though, their eating habits produced quite a lot of noise, actually. All this slurping and smacking, sllrrpppp-mmmmm-chuurp. But it was a nice lunch, and the food was good. And Zhao Hui Feng is the sweetest person, always willing to help me out with anything.

In the afternoon I went shopping with a couple of other girls. We were looking for jeans, and when we went into the first shop, and the shop assistant saw me, she went into complete hysterics, giggling and shouting, and totally unable to control herself. She wanted to shake my hand, and when she tried to explain what kind of jeans they had, she couldn't do it and ended up just staring at me with a strange grin on her face. It was quite funny, really :) Made me feel like a bizarre mutant or some such thing once again, but hey, nothing wrong with mutants!